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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a woman and have some male friends who are chronic cheaters. One guy, his wife found out about one particular woman and actually divorced him over that, but that was years after she had already found out about him cheating before they even got married. She married him anyway, and he never stopped cheating on her. Ever.

Another friend has been married twice. He cheated on both wives. In fact, the current wife was his mistress during his first marriage. She may think she won the prize but the sad truth is that he cheats on her too.

So what I’ve learned from this is that cheaters will ALWAYS cheat. They will never ever stop cheating. And as the wife, you will be the last to know they are cheating, and will never know the full extent of their cheating even if you catch them.

So I don’t think a woman should EVER take back a man who has cheated on her. No way. He will definitely do it again. He will say whatever he has to and get back in your good graces. He will say no feelings were involved. He will say it was only that one woman. But know there’s a 99% chance you are not getting anything near the full picture.

Let him go unless you love the life you’ve built with him and not ready to let that go, which I could understand. But know that he will almost definitely keep cheating on you and that is the price you’re paying for that life.[/quote]

Honey, women do the same.

I know several chronic female cheaters.  One just got discovered and it was already her third affair in the marriage.  First and only one her husband knows about.[/quote]

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