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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How is your marital sex life OP?  All good:  > 95% chance he is NOT cheating. Pretty bad: 100% chance he is on the prowl[/quote]

It's all good: 50% he is cheating Pretty bad: 50% chance is cheating[/quote]

I know you might WISH otherwise (and you might rightfully quibble a small bit with my numbers) but the overwhelming facts are men who are satisfied at home rarely cheat; while unsatisfied men very likely are cheating.

OP? Can you please answer this question?[/quote]

Cheating is not always about being ‘satisfied’ at home. People often cheat because they are insecure and have other issues. How do you think spouses get STDs from cheaters?[/quote]

Yep! 3-4 times per week with me (all variety of sex and horny/grab my @ss in the kitchen or jump me in the shower —high attraction)for 20-years and he managed to have an affair partner that he boned once or twice a month.

Guys with high sex drives can be getting lots of it at home and still find variety/different person enticing because it is an escape from reality/daily grind.  Compartmentalizers.

OP- I don’t know why you would NOT snoop and get to the bottom of this.  Is it because you are afraid you will find out he is cheating?  What’s the alternative—risk STIs and your kid finding more nasty stuff or seeing naked photos of his lover?

Don’t bury your head in the sand...especially with your kid now harmed by it.[/quote]

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