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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Both of those rich bitches (daughter of immigrant non-white moneybags and white money bags) need to take their fight somewhere else and let us dual working parents with incomes only a fraction of theirs figure out how to deal with reality. - non-white immigrant[/quote] Then the topic of this thread should have been "How do 2 full time working parents (with HHI less than x amount) make it work". Since that was not what was asked, you just have to grin and bear it. Alternatively, try and understand that the model of having multigenerational families living together and pooling resources can solve your money, childcare and eldercare problems. Probably will help with your mental health issues too and make your family more relient against job loss, illness and other ups and downs. [/quote] PP here. That's great it works for you (and I say it sincerely), but I don't want to live with my parents and they don't want to live with me. My ancestral cultural norms meant that the husband's mom lived with her son's family and ruled the roost...including physical abuse of her daughter-in-law. You as the DIL kowtowed to her completely and your job was to be subservient to her, your husband, and children. I don't choose that. Also, my white husband's dad is dead, so he can't live with us, and my MIL hates non-white people and doesn't get along with women. So that rules out both of them living with us.[/quote]
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