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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men cheat for sex. Keep your man happy in the bedroom especially when they hit 40-50 and they won’t have the energy to cheat. [/quote]

STOP! Just stop!  I had sex with my husband 3-4 times per week.

There are sex addicts and narcissists and all kinds of f@cked up people with last trauma.

Let’s stop blaming victims.  Let’s realize there are a number of completely different reasons people cheat.

And women are cheating in the same numbers these days.

So quit spouting stupid sh@t.[/quote]

Not PP you are responding to, and it is true that some men cheat when they are still getting action at home. But I really believe those are the rare instances. In reality, most men who cheat in long-term marriages do it because they are not getting sex at home and they do not want do divorce due to splitting kids, custody, housing, etc. No one is dismissing your experience--yes, there are narcissists that cheat on their wives who are sleeping with them, but that is not in every case it is is more the rare situation than the others where men are doing it because they lack physical intimacy in the marriage.[/quote]

Agreed 1000%. Sure there are a handful of long-term wives who still had plenty of sex (now THAT is a minority right there!) .... yet their husband strayed (this combination is exceedingly small minority). 
Most men (married and >30yo) are NOT practicing sex addicts or narcissists. It is not "victim blaming" to state the obvious: a wife who does not want sex can not have a faithful husband.[/quote]

You are an idiot and obviously not a marriage therapist.  These ideas and notions you have are just incorrect.[/quote]

What I said is pretty much the same as 2 different prior PPs. Exactly what part is incorrect?[/quote]

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