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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After a long marriage, who the h@ll wants to date again?  Maybe switch teams.[/quote]

LOL I was thinking the same thing, but not even switching teams. Like, I’m done with people and want to be alone again!

[b]That said, I wonder if dating is a bit easier when you’re older because the pressure’s off? For women in particular, at least when I was growing up, there was so much pressure to get married and have kids. Even if you said you weren’t interested in that, people assumed you secretly were or would change your mind. If you’re a divorced woman in your 40s+ now you are truly free from all that BS. You’ve done the marriage and possibly kids thing and are now able to really think about and explore what you and only you want. Seems like it would naturally breed confidence and excitement and I’m sure that attracts a lot of potential partners.[/b] [/quote]

+100000[/quote]

I think that is true to a large extent...but most divorced women in their 40s in urban areas still have kids at home...and many still in elementary school. It is complicated. In the past, many women in their 40s had kids already gone in college and then the above statement is 100% true [/quote]

Nope. In your 40s kids don’t work against you, especially when you’ve got your own wealth, career, and if you’re a loving and good mom men are even more attracted. Lots of single men are thrilled to have an instant starter family. Bonus, they skip thé nights of sleep deprivation and post-partum mood swings. ;)  there reaches a certain point where you’re just past all of the stupid stuff that is irrelevant. If you love where you are in life, and yourself, and others, you attract so much more healthiness and you’re much more discerning about anything that takes away from time that you value. [/quote]

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