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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you should take the Myers-Briggs test, ASAP.

You sound like a classic INTJ - https://www.16personalities.com/intj-personality

"Architects aren’t known for being warm and fuzzy. They tend to prioritize rationality and success over politeness and pleasantries – in other words, they’d rather be right than popular....Because Architects value truth and depth, many common social practices – from small talk to white lies – may seem pointless or downright stupid to them. As a result, they may inadvertently come across as rude or even offensive when they’re only trying to be honest. At times, Architects may wonder if dealing with other people is even worth the frustration."[/quote]

Yeah, no. My husband is an INTJ (and an actual architect) and he is very analytical and does often come of, unintentionally, as aloof or cold. But he is very loving (not effusive about it, but I've known him long enough to know what is effusive for him) and does not pick random fights with me over stuff that only I care about just to be right. If I told him I loved my new expensive face cream, he'd just smile and say he was happy for me and then go back to his crossword puzzle, because he doesn't care about my face cream at all but he is smart enough to know that's really not the point.[/quote]

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