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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah but it’s feeling like you won the lottery is what makes them all grow up into self centered jerks.[/quote]

In my experience, only children are actually very generous and good at sharing, because they are confident that they have or will get enough. They don’t have to fight for resources at their home. My kid has given away so many toys because the other kid just wanted it — and it’s hard to chastise him for that! Although I did teach him that he should check with me before offering and the other kid should check with a parent before accepting. [/quote]

My only 14YO is the same way.  She often buys things for her friends when they are out and doesn't ever think about asking them to pay her back. She's been very excited to get her first job because she wants to be independent as soon as she can (she doesn't like spending our money, only hers.) She used to constantly give things away when she was younger.  And she is still a sweet kid who will cuddle with mom when I ask (and sometimes request a hug out of the blue.)

I wanted two kids for a long time, but DH just wanted one.  He and his sister are close in age, and it was always a competition (and still is to some extent).  My brother and I are farther apart and get along well.  DH just wasn't on board, so I adjusted my expectations and we are very happy.  [/quote]

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