Reply to Why do husbands never leave for the affair partner?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Why do husbands never leave for the affair partner?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve had an AP for three years and we both like our spouses except the marriages are sexless. There is a lot about my wife that I prefer over my AP and my AP is not someone I’d want to marry. She’s fun, likes sex and there are NSA. [/quote]

Those strings will hang you when one of your spouse’s finds out.  And they will.  You will regret every minute you spent with that AP.  The light of day reveals how truly ugly she is...trust me.  They will flip on u.[/quote]
No. Worst case is the spouse finds out and they divorce. If not for his AP again his only option is divorce. In no scenario does he regret sex with AP.[/quote]

When he loses his wife and kids and begs and cries and moans in agony all for a woman he never loved, wasn’t that attractive and used for sex...yeah he’s pretty upset he risked all of that for a skank.  9 times out of 10 they tell their therapist if they could go back in time they never would have done it.  However, you can’t unf@ck that donkey, so the damage is done.[/quote]

This is my bil still 20 years later. His wife divorced him and though he still has a relationship with his kids, it's not that great. They won't come to his home, nor is the AP allowed to theirs.

He lives with the AP, but never married her. If his wife would take him back he would dump her in a heart beat. For Xmas he goes to his sons home, and the ex is there too. His AP visits her family, it's totally crazy.

When one cheats and divorce happens everyone knows and it affects even the grand-kids. No one wants to visit various homes with APs versus one united family. My bil doesn't have much of a relationship with the grand kids as well which is pretty typical with cheaters. It's a domino effect, and the financial fall out often takes years to recover.

[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics