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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm 37, male, and single. Admittedly, dating apps (Bumble, Tinder, etc.) have confirmed I'm pretty undesirable. I'm tall and make low six-figures but I think my face isn't very attractive (weak jaw, naturally chubby cheeks even though I'm pretty skinny). I'm not balding even slight and stay in good shape, play sports, and (before covid) hit the gym 6x a week. I had trouble getting my career going when I got out of grad school, which I think put me about 5 years behind financially. It is what it is. I have hobbies and interests so life is still tolerable, but I don't delude myself into thinking I'm a desirable person. I gave up caring about that several years ago.[/quote]

Advice from another guy:. Buddy, get off of dating websites. Nothing else in the history of humanity has ever been invented that skews to the advantage of women like Bumble or Tinder. Go to where the odds are better and looks aren't as high a percentage of the equation, though you probably look fine and are harder on yourself than potential dates are.

So where should you look once COVID settles down?
- places of worship
- book clubs
- cultural events
- volunteering
- Sierra Club

You can do it! I have faith in you.[/quote]

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