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[quote=Anonymous]These posts always make me so sad. I just don’t understand how one spouse can be so selfish/controlling/oblivious to the other partners happiness and the spouse asking for more ( things, travel, physical help, emotional support) just get ignored or made to feel bad and they then go away and just suck it up. The money issues always make it worse.

I get saving, I get not living beyond your means, and I get even a bit of sacrifice. But life is long and allowing for no joy - new rug, clean painted walls, family trip, few dinners out, getting highlights.....what is point of living. What  is with all the “ can’t spend a dime” as dh says no!

My dh is not perfect but he loves and cares for me. He wants me to be happy. We spend so much time at home ( now even more so) why would you not want a lovely home. It does not need to be big but it should be clean, aesthetically pleasing, and a place of peace.

I work and contribute a lot but not always as I wanted to be sahm ( or so I thought) and he supported that too.

I could never live like this. I have a friend who does and it is heartbreaking. Every other word is “ bill said.no...yet she won’t get ANY type of job. Always an excuse but her dc are almost all out of house.

If you area teacher, when school goes back, I’d be a sub where your then 5 yr old would be. I’d save that money and travel in summer with kids.

And please, sit him down and tell him how unhappy you are. You have no life but care giving...you can’t plan an outing, a vacation, a home project....nothing but what he wants. Does he even want you? Ask him. Tell him How unhappy you are. Sounds like someone who is living his life and y’all are just background. You deserve so much more.[/quote]

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