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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the women questioning "why did you get pregnant during COVID," I encourage you to hear a different perspective.

I tried getting pregnant for 3 years. Finally did. Had a miscarriage. Tried for another year. No luck. Began infertility testing, then COVID started. Had to pause everything, but doctors suggested we keep trying. I thought that was cute ... but it finally worked and stuck.

Some of us aren't lucky enough to pick and choose when we get pregnant. Posts chastising OP for getting pregnant during COVID are cruel. You can express your disagreement with her complaint without being nasty about her (and others) fertility journey.[/quote]

I also dealt with infertility before finally getting pregnant during the pandemic. I was sad and disappointed that my husband couldn’t come, but not once did I complain or think anything other than it was totally understandable and the right thing to do. I am just thankful to be pregnant. I also looked at the advantages—they allowed me to video an ultrasound so I have the baby and his heartbeat on video. We also have these sweet moments where I get to sit with him and share pictures sitting next to him—not laying half naked in a doctors office. Choosing the positives is just that—a choice. [/quote]

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