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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for all the replies.

Just wanted to get various points of view.

Sleepover it is :)[/quote]

Just make sure their rooms are bit away or have good sound proofing.

We let our 19 year old DD and her boyfriend in the same room. They had no concept of how loud they were and we can hear everything. Pretty traumatic for our 16 year old DD and us. We all had to head down to basement in the middle of the night. Worst and most embarrassing night ever.[/quote]

No offense, PP, but I think this shows how much control you've given up as a parent. I don't really care about your decision to let the dude sleep over, but the idea of them being loud and you and your other kids huddling up in the hallway and jointly slinking off to the basement? No, thank you. It's not a leaky roof in a storm, it's something you can put a stop to. Why not bang on the wall and say, "hey, keep it down there!"? If the guy is still in the picture, he now thinks he can get away with anything with you (because they definitely know you could hear them). [/quote]

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