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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been married for 16 years and the opportunities to cheat are everywhere for both of us. I've had more than him, esp. when we were first married, but he has had several too. We don't cheat but we always disclose when someone propositions us. Not sure why. I think it's just because it happens more often than we ever thought it would. I've had it come up in many places- work, parties, general public, other parents, etc. For DH, it has been a stranger once and the mother of one of our kid's friends. The other kid's father found out that his wife tried and blew up at it, so our kid had to end the friendship. It was very weird and uncomfortable for the kids.

We keep to ourselves as much as possible. People don't seem to understand healthy boundaries and it is annoying.[/quote]

Your DH must have given some indication that he was in to the mother of your kids friends. I just can’t imagine flirting with an uninterested man would get so blown out of proportion that the husband would blow up.  Unless the husband was excessively jealous. [/quote]

PP here; no, she actually did this to our mutual friend's husband, too. She was very attention seeking. Her husband was frustrated that she was throwing herself at his kid's friends' fathers while he was traveling for work. Wouldn't that upset you?[/quote]

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