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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But you don't get it. I have had kids in the hospital, too. Here is part of another post, talking about just this: "But of course this is not how it works. It is the people without privilege who learn the real unfairness of the world at a very young age. Privileged children only learn about fairness on an individual level. They are rarely taught about the structural unfairness of the world." That is what I am saying. [b]You think you are immune to "life happening" and you either don't even realize it, or do everything to avoid "that life", or would never admit it. [/b] No one is entitled to anything. Ever. No one is entitled to being "compensated" because their family is in the hospital, as mine have been. Don't pretend you know me or what my family has been through. [b]You think you are immune.[/b] You are not.[/quote] DP. You're making assumptions. No one said that PP's kids are "entitled to being 'compensated.'" Of course there is enormous inequality in the world, and we should do our best to reduce it. If someone was able to pay for PP's kids to continue their education during a time when their sibling was ill, that's a good thing. I'm not sure that I understand the point of your post. Do you think that privileged people should have to go through challenging times to knock them down a peg?[/quote] My point is privileged people do not understand the word inequality and sacrifice like non privileged people do. Admit it or not, it still stands. Is your biggest fear being knocked down a peg? Seems it. [/quote] NP here. You come across as bitter and cynical. You must realize that many privileged people weren’t always privileged? Some of them might even understand inequality even more that you? And that regardless of privilege, all people can appreciate kindness and others offering a helping hand with them being “entitled”? All your posts have been warning about naïveté, acting as if you know more than anyone else, and being generally judgmental over Someone wanting to do something nice for someone else. Give where you see the need, let others give where they see the need. [/quote] I agree. If I gave and found out someone was embellishing - I would have a problem with that. Maybe you have money to throw around, that’s your business. [/quote]
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