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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Health is more important than beauty. I always believed that when you are young, physical beauty is given, and when you are old, physical beauty is earned. You will see many of the women you considered beautiful and privileged in their 20s have their looks fade into their 40s, or they get ridiculous plastic surgery. Those who hold up their looks have to earn it with proper lifestyles. An "average" woman by genetics can stand out from others over 40 if she is physically fit, takes good care of her skin, dresses well, gets enough sleep.

This is what I tell myself, anyway. In my 20s I felt like I was nothing special. Not ugly, but I hated my pale skin and dull eye color and lack of prominent cheekbones and being short. Just kind of plain and mousy looking. I made up for it by staying in shape, having a good skin regimen, and getting beauty sleep. Paid off in dividends now that I'm 40. [/quote]

Yes health is of course the most important thing.

But the idea that beauty is earned in older women?  No- you can not let yourself go- continue dressing well, staying slender, etc but beautiful women do these things too- probably more than other women as they age!

I have always turned heads and gotten attention for my looks- I’m 40 now, and I work hard to stay attractive.  I still get a lot of attention but being young and beautiful is magical.  The power a beautiful woman has is real, and it fades.  But it doesn’t die.

I wish I were a perfect 10, I know that I’m lucky I’m even if I’m an 8 now, & unattractive women are I’m sure experience the world differently in some ways. 
Point being, having good skincare will not transform you. But focus on your strengths- I’ve lost my entire family, I have struggled with anxiety and depression... no need to hate ANYONE, just see reality and focus on yourself not other women. [/quote]

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