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[quote=Anonymous]
True story:

Seven friends in 40s and 30s

3 are the only ones who are able to go away for weekend.  While the 3 were never really 1:1 before on this trip they really bonded.  Over ripping the other 4.

Months go by.  I get a text from my closest friend of group (the one who’s there when sh*t hits the fan)
“Hey.  Larla gave me an earful. Hope we can still be friends”

No context. Did not speak or text me for weeks after.
I was left so sad.  Larla had told lies to the other 4 of us b/c she was pissed how she was texted an invite not email. Imagine? 
It was nuts.

The friend who ghosted me got together with me and was apologetic and said she didn’t realize how crazy the other 2 were until this spat got elevated - yes voodoo dolls. Trash talk non stop.

I am not friends with the 3.  The apology was nice to clear the air but who the heck wants a friend they can’t trust.

I’ll never forget when first becoming friends with one of the drama queens year earlier  her husband said “yeah she does have a lot of friends, but when it ends it’s not pretty”

Wow.  That was a red flag.

Women can be cruel.

Good ones are keepers though.
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