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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you can only speak about your  specific husband. It's aslo about what you choose to priortizze.  My husband is an equal partner in terms of caring for the kids and house, and he understands just as well as I do that sometimes  plans for a romantic evening get interupted or put on hold. That said if a choice to use energy for sex or laundry we 9/10 prioritze  the sex.[/quote]
For some, the reality that they didn't choose a husband very wisely is harsh. So they fall back on the belief that all men are like their husbands. It's sad, but true.[/quote]
There aren’t enough equal partner type husbands to go around. How many men do you know that were taught to cook as children? How many young boys? Very few. How many were encouraged to take initiative around the house?[/quote]

This. 
My DH promised the moon and back and couldn't wait to have kids and be a hands on dad!!! However, hands on to him is reading 1 book before bed and playing catch for 10 minutes. [/quote]

Please divorce this bad-choice unequal partner selfish lying bait and switch man baby small dk loser who thinks (wrongly) that he is somehow "entitled" to sex!

Or... stay with him in your platonic room mate (open) marriage.[/quote]

Yep Every answer is either demand better (like no woman has ever thought of that) or OPEN MARRIAGE
how about a man grow, mature, communicate and realize that HE is the manbaby and demands shouldn't have to be put on him to be a man. Oh, but then that is on HIM. 
Otherwise it is the wife's fault for staying and if she does it is open marriage for them. 
Men. Grow the EFF up and understand that being a husband and father is a different role than an Effbuddy from college[/quote]

I am not excusing the man baby. Quite the opposite, I am agreeing 100% with every one of your complaints. But he's not here, while you are.
Therefore, in regards to YOUR role: if you are married to a man baby who won't grow the EFF up then JUST DIVORCE him!
Do not stay with a terrible partner whom you don't want sex with. Yes that absolutely IS the wife's fault for staying.

But... if you choose NOT divorce, you must know that even man babies absolutely will find sex elsewhere. Your marriage therefore is open.
So please make up your mind. Just as man babies are not entitled to sex (with wife), WOMEN who stay (sexlessly) married to a man baby are not entitled to fidelity.[/quote]

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