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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP lives here. Sounds like she is American born and raised. Who cares what is the norm somewhere else in the world? It is not just about sex, talking at night, having the plans for the next day, falling asleep, having a partner. Not to mention htat OP admitted that she is doing this for herself. 
She needs to ask herself why is she using her 1 year old for emotional support?[/quote]

Why can’t they do all of that and then go to sleep in separate beds? Personally, when I sleep I sleep... it makes zero difference who is next to me, but if it gives comfort to my young kids, I am very happy to do it. DH is 46... he can sleep on his own[/quote]
Except in her case, it gives comfort to her, she clearly posted that her son is fine on his own. Plus she goes to bed at 8 pm! To her dh, she is like a nanny to his child, not a wife. You must have an unhappy marraige if you are even married. Happily married people like to fall sleep and go to bed together. Heck, unhappily married people like to go to bed together and hope to improve their relationship, even with talking things out. It is not just about sex, it is companionship.
Now, if OP said her son has health issues, screams at night, and needs to be soothed, sure, but she openly said she is anxious about being apart from her child. Do you think that small tiny detail is irrelevant? SHe is anxious to be apart, even in the same house from her kid. That is not normal, that indicates more than just sleeping apart issues.[/quote]

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