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[quote=Anonymous]There's a difference between a one-off "The chemistry was too tough to ignore" going after a taken man and a pattern of serial behavior of several years. I'm always curious what motivates the latter to pursue this. It's obviously not about the sex or even the man if you feel motivated to make sure the girlfriend or spouse finds out.[/quote]

Yea I think in some cases it is about surpassing or feeling one is preferred over the other female. For more destructive types, i have wondered it is the outcome of a deeper toxic kind of envy. I have wondered, because a couole of of times in our larger peer group, there were affairs that seemed to be connected to the relationship between the women.. It looked motivated to impact the wife of the cheater. I joked with my husband the year before he had an emotional affair with his ap that I thought she had a crush on me. I had never ever thought this about any other female and I don’t mean a sexual crush. I mean she seemed to idealize me and my life and work and who knows? Maybe taking him was a rush of sorts, I don't know.  [/quote]

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