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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love the OW that think their cheater will never ever cheat on them down the road...65-70% well-documented odds you are working against.  [/quote]

Some of them are being cheated on right now  :lol: [/quote]

Sad and true. What a tangled web we weave when we conspire today deceive. Amirite? [/quote]

When they are that smug- most definitely.

I read that one of the biggest risk factors for being cheated on is the mindset that your spouse would never do it.[/quote]

Well, as someone that believes it is an unnatural requirement to ask men to never, ever put their penis in any other vagina, until the end of time, I have a very long string in this area. I think everyone is at risk of it, it is a matter of time and circumstance, and also your state and your relationship's state. There is no black and white answer, and no I wouldn't throw away a love if they proved they were honest about a mistake. But as someone that has still been cheated on, despite this mindset, and every other request a man has, I can tell you -- they will throw it away when you wont.

At least my days of digging it out of the trash and trying to save it are over. If it isn't valuable enough of a relationship to the cheater to come clean, and say, hey, this is where things area -- then clearly they thought not ever having me was worth the risk. And if they can overcome their fear to be as vulnerable as I was in believing their deceit, by telling me the truth? I would help them clean the rubble and rebuild. Because that is the greater strength to me.

Suffice to say, I have yet to find it. Usually either men just don't cheat, or they break up, or they lie. Rarely do they make a mistake and initiate a repair. But, time always tells. Maybe one day. Never thought we would see smoke in DC from thousands of miles away. In these days, I dont tempt fate.[/quote]

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