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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I always assume kids like this are on the spectrum. I try to be polite, but redirect. [/quote] I would also assume kids that prefer to talk to adults are on the spectrum. They are probably changing the topic to talk about their special interest. That being said, I think the best thing that you can do is to model with your own children. What do you do when your kids come around while you are talking with your friend? [/quote] Please read a book of child development and educate yourself. This is completely normal behavior in young children. [/quote] It’s really not. Normal kids prefer to play with other kids, not sit and engage in adult conversations for hours. I’m not saying you should let it go, just that maybe OP’s kids are happily playing with other children instead of talking to adults about the 18 different kinds of wolf spiders because they are wired differently, not because she is a superior parent who wouldn’t tolerate that behavior. [/quote] Plenty of super smart kids prefer to talk to adults rather than kids. My sister was very smart and taught herself to read at 3. She's very social though and loves to talk, but she was far above the intellectual level of other kids her age. Now she's a well adjusted adult with impeccable social skills and a high paying job- probably because she spent a lot of time engaging with and learning from adults. She had plenty of friends her own age too, but she could have conversations with people older who were more intellectually compatible with her. Contrast that to many of the people on here who were ordered not to talk to adults and have admited mental health issues[/quote]
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