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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affairs devastate families and children.

[b]They cause the victims mental trauma, PTSD, that can last a lifetime.[/b]

Shitty, f@cked up people have affairs.  Something is wrong inside.  It’s not answer for anything.  It’s selfish and cowardly.

Some people are fantastic, devious little f@ckers so it might be a long time until they are caught.  When they are, they quickly change their tune and throw their “lovah” under the bus because it was never love.  It was enmeshment of two broken people in a fantasy world.

I’m in my 50s and do not know anyone personally that has had an affair or a marriage that blew up from an affair.

I think it’s a huge character flaw.  You are a liar.  Cheating=lying at the base level.  It is morally corrupt.  [/quote]

This has been very true for me.  In my 40s and never had a normal relationship after seeing my parent (mother) have multiple APs and often involve me in the deceit.  The main affair came out but parents stayed together and once mother's "drive" settled down in her late 60s it has been a non-issue for them.  DADT[/quote]

Same here.  Terrible.  Big hugs to you [/quote]

My spouse had a midlife affair with a woman that has had multiple affairs and she isn’t slowing down.  Her boys are now in high school and the husband (and kids) now know.  I really think what psychological load that presents,  “my mom is a whore and doesn’t care enough about any of us to get into therapy and make it stop”.  They will be f@cked up for life.[/quote]

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