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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affairs devastate families and children.

[b]They cause the victims mental trauma, PTSD, that can last a lifetime.[/b]

Shitty, f@cked up people have affairs.  Something is wrong inside.  It’s not answer for anything.  It’s selfish and cowardly.

Some people are fantastic, devious little f@ckers so it might be a long time until they are caught.  When they are, they quickly change their tune and throw their “lovah” under the bus because it was never love.  It was enmeshment of two broken people in a fantasy world.

I’m in my 50s and do not know anyone personally that has had an affair or a marriage that blew up from an affair.

I think it’s a huge character flaw.  You are a liar.  Cheating=lying at the base level.  It is morally corrupt.  [/quote]

This has been very true for me.  In my 40s and never had a normal relationship after seeing my parent (mother) have multiple APs and often involve me in the deceit.  The main affair came out but parents stayed together and once mother's "drive" settled down in her late 60s it has been a non-issue for them.  DADT[/quote]

Yikes.  That had to be hard watching your mom f@ck all these men behind your dad’s back.

Sorry, but she’s awful.  [/quote]

Thank you - it was hard to see, and also hard to know that (at some point) dad knew and didn't do anything about it.  I will always wonder why - did he just love her so much, or would he rather stay in denial? (I think both).  [/quote]

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