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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could it be, even remotely possible that he is seeing another woman & bought this underwear for her??

And instead of getting caught &gt;&gt;&gt; he concocted this story as an excuse??

Because I would think you would of had a gut feeling beforehand....[/quote]

OP here, no the underwear was definitely his and not another woman's.  Part of me wonders though if he is really being completely honest regarding his sexuality.  He told me is turned on by women way more than men but I have no idea if he is just saying that so I don't worry.  He has always had a lower sex drive and I've wondered many times if he is really that sexually turned on by me.  Even if I wear something sexy like lingerie, it does not seem to illicit much of a reaction out of him.  My fear is that his sexual interests skew more towards men but he's afraid to admit it or doesn't know because he has never experienced it.  [/quote]

He is definitely not straight. It sounds like he might be gay if he's not very interested in you and is forcing it.

I agree that this is going to become a bigger and bigger issue until it's over. Will probably be easier on you and the kids to work out the divorce earlier rather than later.

Straight men are not like this.

I am so, so sorry. I dated a closeted gay man once years ago. Not the same, but still, yes, it happens. It is definitely not the same thing as being trans or bi.[/quote]

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