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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Wife works but her job isn't as demanding as mine. She could get a job that paid a lot more and we could have 50/50 custody and I could keep more of my money, but I don't think that's optimal for everyone, and not just because someone has to be home with the kids during Covid. I don't think that suddenly having their dad move out and also suddenly having their mom putting in long hours at the office is good for the kids. They'd have less parental time right when they probably need more of it, and their mom will be more stressed out. Insisting on 50/50 with wife pulling her full weight financially just sounds like a deal where I get money to play in exchange for the kids getting more babysitters. [/quote] OP, you are a good man. Way too many ex husbands fight for 50/50 just so they could pay less alimony or child support to their ex wife, without thinking about the kids’ well-being. I am sure you will find a new love. [/quote]
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