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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, OP. Do whatever you want. The nub of the issue here REALLY is that most people don’t really love spending thousands of dollars traveling to other people’s weddings and don’t love hearing about weddings and thinking about weddings and hearing about the planning of weddings.
It’s a short period in your life when this all feels very important. And I say this as someone who thought my own wedding (and my friends’ weddings, during that period in my life) was VERY important. Now it all seems silly and wasteful. So do what you want, say less, maybe keep a tiny door in your mind open to changing your mind about the whole thing 2 years from now when you will have been married for 2 years. Your perspective might shift by then. Maybe you’d prefer to use the wedding money on a house or a fantastic trip to Tahiti. Who knows?! But definitely don’t take it personally. Nothing anyone says about your plans is about you. Honestly. It’s about the wedding industrial complex.[/quote]

it's not wedding money. It's a party one year after their wedding. Either get married in 2022 with the original B&B plan if it's so important to you, or do something else sooner. But not both a wedding sooner then a fake redo one year later.[/quote]

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