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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well I am working on my US driver license but Because of  Covid I couldn’t get to the dmv
So [b]he wanted to add me to his insurance until I got my license [/b]
As fast as possible
I only wanted him to help bc he invited me to live in his house and talking about marrying me, so I figured it wouldn’t be a big deal for him, especially after I helped to take care of his handicapped brother because the parents didn’t want strangers in the house
I did a lot of other nice stuff , because I saw this as a step of us taking the next step, and help each other
So I’m very sad but also very mad too because he left me hanging 
I also told him he doesn’t have to do it, my firmed was helping me out, but bc I was going to live with him and he said he wants to do it
I said you don’t have to, totally fine, but tell me BEFORE I move in so I can look for somebody else help me
I don’t understand either, he didn’t even make an effort to call the insurance company nothing
It looks to me like he lied, he didn’t want to do it, then when I was pushing him bc he said he will do it, and I needed the car within a week, he realized now he’s stuck, so he send me to his mom who just told me to get my license myself , basically indirectly telling me they don’t want to help me
Am I overreacting? Ty![/quote]

I don't understand this. If you don't have a license, he can't add you to his insurance? And once you get your license, adding you to his insurance is likely going to be ungodly expensive -- considering you helped buy his appliances, maybe he cannot afford it?

Since he involved his mother, that was probably his way of telling you his mother (wisely) doesn't approve of this ask to add you to his insurance -- huge liability issue. You aren't married. The fact that she showed you how to do it rather than just doing it for you is her way of teaching you to fish rather than giving you a fish.

Please stop mentioning the brother. You act like that makes you a saint for which you are owed something. It's repulsive.
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