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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am shocked at all of the animosity around parents spending time with their children post-divorce. Divorce without children, fine, never see your ex-spouse again, but divorce with children is a completely different ballgame. Divorced parents need to get along with their ex-spouse, regardless of what the new spouse/significant other thinks.

Family dinners are not a big deal, and no, significant others should not be invited. This is about the children and their parents.[/quote]

Amen! People seem to have no idea what a divorce looks like when they are putting the kids first. It has nothing to do with the ex-spouses. It is all about the kids. [/quote]

Totally agree - kids of divorced parents would be so much better of if their parents had civil relationships and could gather as co-parents with their kids on a semi-regular basis.

OP, I think you are just too insecure to be in this relationship.  Would you think about getting therapy to help you figure out why you are so needy and resent the time your boyfriend spends with his kids?  It would be much more of a red flag about his character if he had a terrible relationship with his ex and didn't see his kids very much.[/quote]

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