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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH tells me all the time he is very thankful he landed on his feet after his divorce, although it took a few years to get back to good, and more to get back to great. I think at year 1 he felt ok, year 5 was still tough, and now year 10+ he is thriving.

I know part of that was meeting me, having more kids, and switching jobs, but it was also because it takes time to build a new relationship, find a new community, etc, which get fractured as part of the divorce. [/quote]

More kids? Yikes.  That’s what most people would not want —back to the baby, toddler, preschool stuff all over again.  One thing my spouse and I agree on is that our kids will never have anymore siblings...whether we stay together or not.[/quote]

Agree. It's not fair to the kids, they don't want steps, and half siblings. I wish people would stop doing that, have kids with 1 partner. It's messing up all the kids who can't get enough attention and care from their bios. My friends DH made sure to get a vasectomy to ensure his kids were protected after divorce. [/quote]

I would not have wanted my sibling given a choice.  Its not their choice.  I couldn't care less what my husband's kids would have wanted nor did he.  He can still be a man and take care of his kids and have more.[/quote]

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