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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mid-50s male. Thriving 5 years after divorce.

Mentally: ex-wife was an abusive borderline personality disordered woman, so being away from her is indescribably wonderful. I have had tremendous mental contentment the past few years, and I no longer require therapy.

Physically: I have lost 50 pounds, I work out most days, and I'm approaching being ripped. My BP is lower now than it was at any time during the marriage. 
 
Financially: I never realized while I was married how much of a millstone my unproductive and selfish ex was on my financial status. I am now planning to retire with $4.5 million in savings, and a pension + SS income of $150,000. Retirement plan is to either buy a house on the beach, or a farm or ranch in the mountains. Maybe both, if real estate prices don't go up too quickly.

Professionally: I am already a leader in my field, but the mental abuse and anguish my ex put on me for the last decade of marriage slowed my rate of promotion. My career is back fully on-track and I expect to be promoted soon.

Romantically: I have dated at least 130 women since the divorce, and had sex with about a dozen of them. Of all those women, only a few were worth the effort, and only one or two would I marry. One of them I would worship--she was an amazing goddess.

Recreationally: I have returned to my old hobbies which I was not allowed to have when I was married, and these alone bring me a lot of happiness. 
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So - no kids?[/quote]

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