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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You got married & had children young OP, and now that you are approaching the big 3-0, you may be worrying that your youth is slowly slipping away.... Along w/it, missed opportunities. This is a normal feeling to have during milestone birthdays. I think you should first talk to a professional counselor + see what they advise you doing. One that can provide an objective perspective to what I believe is a problem more common than we think. Good luck![/quote] +1 You aren’t going to get what you are looking for. You will never be a carefree 20 something or 30 something - that ship has already sailed. Make what you have work. No one is going to come and sweep you off your feet - that isn’t your life, and you need to deal with that.[/quote] OP here. I’m surprised at all of the replies! I think you hit the nail on the head. I think I got sad about missed opportunities. You are right, it wouldn’t be the same now vs 10 years ago. I did talk to my DH about it and we agreed to start “dating” again and doing things that we did when we first started dating. The intimate conversations, kindness, compliments, and being intentional in loving on each other has really helped!! Thank you all for the replies - I read every single one. [/quote]
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