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[quote=Anonymous]^ so here is the issue:  you started out saying marriage was bad and should not have married, and now you’re saying that you wanted your marriage.  This is insidious because most people won’t challenge your first narrative and believe it’s the marriage that was at fault.  Honestly, it’s how you handled yourself and your level of commitment that’s the issue but you keep on talking about marriage/spouse being at fault.  You clearly haven’t done much introspection so that you can prevent this in the future.

Also, it’s your issue that caused your wife’s relationship with her kids to change and her standard of living to change.  You feel bad about what happened to you, not about what you did to her.  Real regret will come from realizing what you did to her.

On one hand I commend you for taking some responsibility but on the other hand you’re still hedging when you talk about the cause of the damage.   How do you prevent this from happening if there’s no real introspection?  Maybe you don’t care in which case it doesn’t matter.  Again, thanks for a respectful discussion.[/quote]

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