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[quote=Anonymous]I have such compassion for you, OP. If I were you I would not share information that I knew could not be acted upon and would only bring sadness. I actually think your main task is to forgive yourself for the difficult decisions you made that were understandable but have made you a lonely prisoner of regret. I think it would be far more constructive to tell your DH that his reaction to your abortion deepened your emotional damage. Unlike your first boyfriend, your DH is in a position to do something about it, even if it is only apologizing. Please forgive yourself as well for not having demanded better treatment from your DH. The chains of guilt caused you to see his disappointment (including the lack of sympathy that led him to express it that way) as reasonable, even deserved. You are strong, beautiful in spirit, and worthy not only of Christ's love but esteem and joy here on Earth.[/quote]
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