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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]PP here. It is not apples to oranges. You may not have read my earlier post. I am not dating men in their 40s with kids. I am dating men in their 30s never married, no kids. I am early 40s. I presume single age 30-39 would be the exact same pool a 28-year-old would be looking in. If I have good luck, logic states she should have better luck with the same pool of men. Yes, I have kids. She should not be looking at men in their 20s.[/quote]

You say you are “dating men in their 30s never married, no kids.” Are you dating multiple men at the same time in NSA or FWB situations? If so, your story makes sense. The post-divorce world can be hard, and it is nice to see you have found what makes you happy.
  
However, most single, childless men in their 30s are not looking to settle down with an older woman (e.g., a woman in her 40s) with kids, especially if they want children that share their biology.

Your statement that if you have “good luck” in your dating situation, then she (a 28 year-old single mother of three) would have good luck dating single, childless men in their 30s starkly contrasts the dating environment that exists in NoVA and much of the rest of the US. 
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I know men that certainly used the 40s married women with kids for 'fun' while they dated and looked for baggage-free 'wife material' women their own age or younger.[/quote]

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