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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do people keep saying the son is visiting there and needs to use guest food rules? Either it is his house too, as in he is part of the family, in which case family needs to be considerate of his food preferences. My husband hates spicy food and curry. I can either not make it or make it and something else for him / let him make something else. “Making” someone eat something is bananas in their own home. If my husband went to dinner as a guest but only was served curry, he would eat some plain rice, a splash of sauce, and eat something else when he got home. But that is as a guest. He is a family member.

If he truly is a guest and is treated as a guest and should be viewed as a guest then those are the family dynamics and OP owes them nothing.

If you can swing a grand or two, that is nice. Nothing else though[/quote]

First this isn't real.  2nd, if he's there 4 times a month he absolutely is a guest. Family members don't visit 4 days a month.  Family members live there at least part time.  Mom probably is extremely controlling of everything, especially food.[/quote]

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