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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just agree, what is the big deal.  Why can't he have one day a week and decision making with his child?  Its in the child's best interests for Dad to be involved with a regular schedule.[/quote]

PP, you post the same thing on every thread. Is there anything that father could ask for that do that wouldn't be acceptable to you?[/quote]

Most of the time the requests are reasonable and compromising is best for the child.   Your choices and behavior greatly impact your child and what kid of parents they are in the future.   This dad is asking to help make decisions for their child.  That is reasonable.   This dad is asking for visits once a week.   They live in the same building for that purpose.  It is reasonable to have a schedule as otherwise it is at moms whim.    It is reasonable to ask for a bit more child support.  All three can easily be compromised on.

Do you really want to teach your sons dads are not important and as men you only pay child support but no decisions or involvement.  And, what do you teach your daughter?    You may be in a hard situation with a co parent but most are not and you want to set the example of healthy relationships.   What you do now will have life long consequences. [/quote]

And what is the father teaching his son when he doesn’t see him for months (father’s choice) even though we live in the same building? If you are going to respond with this nonsense, then please take the time and read all of the posts. All of your questions have been answered five times already. [/quote]

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