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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t see it as cheating. For over two years my husband showed absolutely no interest in me as a person let alone as a wife and I did my best to attract him but nothing worked. After 14 years of marriage and three children I was desperately lonely and then I met a man at work who for a few months was just nice to me, just a business friend. We had intelligent adult conversations of which I had none at home. Eventually we had a relationship but I never felt like I was cheating because I wasn’t denying my spouse anything, I wasn’t taking something from him because nothing was there. That relationship eventually ended on good terms and when I became an empty nester the marriage ended though it had really ended years before that. I feel no guilt for what I did. I’m now in a very good relationship and I’m happy. [/quote]

Since you are a woman, this is perfectly fine. In fact, you are a saint and a victim.  No woman should be ignored or denied sex in her marriage and if she is, she is perfectly justified to go elsewhere.  No need to reveal anything to him so he can make an informed decision.

The hypocrisy in this thread is incredible.[/quote]

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