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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I never understood cheaters and judged them harshly until I became one myself.  Life is complicated.  Humans are imperfect and selfish.  [b]Initiating divorce is not nearly as easy as it looks on TV. 
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All I can say is don’t judge until you have walked in another’s shoes.  Though that will fall on deaf ears on this sanctimonious forum where no one has ever done wrong.

I’ve learned in life to never say never.[/quote]

Plus one to this.  I almost feel jealous of the people on here who see black and white.  It must be easy to live to pure, I was once like that too.[/quote]
Why not? Too cheap to pay attorneys' fees, child support, alimony? Trying to "do what's best for the kids" by being selfish and lying to their other parent?[/quote]

Yes, in choosing to prioritize my kids home vs. the potential of hurting my spouse if I get caught, when said spouse has zero desire for intimacy, it's not a close call.  If you are intimate and have a good sexual relationship with yours, why do you protest so much?[/quote]

NP.  Stop using the kids as a reason.  You don't want to leave your wife but maybe your wife would want to leave you if she found out.  This is such a "I know what's best" shitty thought process and clearly narcissistic.  Who the hell are you to make that decision for your wife?

Just because someone disagrees with you, it doesn't mean they don't have good intimate relationship with their spouse.  Maybe they just have good character to call you on your bs![/quote]

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