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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please leave her. She clearly needs therapy to deal with her mountain of issues, but you can't fix that for her. Sticking around is just stretching out the problem. You will have debt whether you are with her or not. If you are not with her, you can try and repair your relationship with your kids and your mental health will likely improve. You NEED to reach out to your kids, take responsibility for your past actions and understand that it will likely take a long time and repeated efforts on your part to see results there. The biggest issue in your life is not your debt, it is your wife. Let her figure out how to support her kids - isn't that what she forced your ex-wife to do?[/quote] I know this is what ultimately needs to happen, the question is how/when/under what circumstances. My ex was able to support herself because she had stable employment and was getting spousal and child support from me. Current only gets a small amount of child support and is otherwise dependent on me. Her mother could help her somewhat but she's getting very elderly and has a fixed income...certainly not enough to cover. [/quote]
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