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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you have siblings OP? Do you not do things just with them?

My sisters and I and our mom sometimes have lunch and dinner together no husbands.

Husbands also can their moms and talk privately and visit them without the wives.[/quote]

Ok but usually grown men don't have that much in common with their mom usually girls talk privately with mom about girly things and vice versa with guys and their dads. Also please give me an example of something a husband might want to talk to privately with his mom and not his wife? I usually don't hear grown men telling their mom their deepest darkest secrets[/quote]

It's not an either or thing. Why can't you understand that? Why are you obsessed with the idea he is hiding something from you?

It's possible he talks privately to you and mom about the same subjects.
Though I suspect it's quite difficult to have any type of conversation with you.
Again this boils down to your insecurities in the relationship.

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Ok but if he is telling me too why does he need to walk away to do it and do it privately with his mom? I dunno my mom and dad have a very happy marriage of almost 35 years and whenever my maternal grandma called my dad always included my mother in conversations and my mom was treated like a daughter by her mil and she talked on the phone as well. I mean I am also this women's DIL maybe I wanna talk to her too.[/quote]

Your mom was abusive and controlling too. This makes sense you don't have a healthy model.

If you want to talk to your MIL so badly call her.[/quote]

What? So quick to pull out the abusive label. There are plenty of couples who talk to family members together. My parents are an extremely functional and happy couple. They just happened to call family together how does that make my mom abusive? My maternal grandmother loved my mom like a daughter. My mom never asked this of my dad and he just naturally happened to never walk away it was just the dynamics of their relationship with each other and his mom. I'm so confused how you can possibly get my mom was abusive out of that. Just because thats not what you do in your marriage doesn't my make mom abusive. Different ways of being in a relationship \: abusive.[/quote]

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