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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear OP,

You sound like a loving and kind person so please listen to all the advice on this board. Your story is not special, your story is not unique, you do not love him more than any other sister, friend, colleague, I ever known who has been in your exact situation. You just think your story is different/ special because your man is so “ different” and you understand him so much and that he has all these quirks .....has a hard time with decisions, needs time...have heard them all.

You love HIM; he does not love you ( or at least as wife/ life commitment.) sounds like he cares for you.  A story as old as time.

You ask “ how do I let go....I love him” - probably 90% of women/us have been in your shoes. Maybe not as long, maybe not the same age, maybe not the same personality but the one thing I would bet my fortune on is when a man wants you to be “ his” no career, distance, finances, timeframe, personality quirk stops him.

I’m older so I have experienced and seen this scenario way too many times.

You say you love him then own it tonight, tell him, give him YOUR timeline — like a week to decide if you are the one. He has had TWO years. What the hell could you still need to work on as he said.

You may lose him but you will gain your self- respect back. If he lets you walk, he would have let you walk eventually.

Please love yourself more.[/quote]

100% OP, you are not alone, as many of us have been there. You will be happier without him, I promise. You deserve that, as hard as that is to believe.[/quote]

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