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[quote=Anonymous]When you see him in person, keep it SHORT. Please stop telling him how much you love him and want to be with him. He knows. Now it's time to keep it short, and check in about whether you two are on the same page. Make a clear, short ask. Don't debate, don't discuss all night, don't go into your hopes and dreams again--just tell him, "I am looking to {whatever you want, move in, get married} in the next {your time frame}. Does that work for you?" And that's a yes or no. And if no, he can tell you what does. And if it's not specific, that's your sign to MOVE ON and find someone who wants what you want. There's nothing wrong with what either of you wants, necessarily. But honestly, it sounds like he's just not that into you. He gives you just what you need to keep you tied in but not what you actually need. Read the book ATTACHED by Amir Levine about attachment styles. [/quote]
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