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Reply to "Therapist Won't Condemn my Partner's Affair."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry if I wasn't clear. My partner had an affair. I only discovered because I saw their texts. We decided to try counseling. Partner has yet to apologize or admit they were wrong. On first visit, the therapist said they were not in a position to make judgement on whether the affair was wrong. I need there to be an admission and recognition of wrongdoing in order to proceed toward forgiveness. I was raised that you apologize when you're wrong.[/quote] Why are you in counseling? I mean I wouldn't even go to counseling unless the party who cheated begged me to go. The thing is that you are betraying yourself by staying, and by going to therapy. It is not your place to force him to apologize. It is his place to beg for forgiveness. You cannot make him. And you cannot grant forgiveness until he asks for it. Worry about yourself and your children. Forget therapy. [/quote]
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