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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also, I am weary of commenters who say we should have discussed before we got married - yes I now agree with you, and I realize the mistake I made. I trusted but did not verify. Repeating that fact doesn't help me now... I swear I will tell my children to pull the credit report of anyone they plan to marry to avoid this situation. I appreciate the advice but the "you should have's" are really not helping in this situation and sound more like lecturing at this point. I appreciate it, but believe me, I realize my mistake. Advice for my situation now would be much appreciated...![/quote] That advice was followed by “do it now”. You need to be in counseling. This isn’t just “he hid something”. It’s also why he feels like he can’t talk to you. There’s a basic communication issue here. You can get through it and have a wonderful marriage but you both need to work on this. If you read your initial post, it’s obvious why he didn’t tell you. He didn’t want you to think less of him and you think you’re better than him at finances. Maybe you are, but he didn’t want to be looked down upon by his partner. You wouldn’t like that feeling either. [/quote]
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