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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Does everyone keep just glossing over how OP has said that the boyfriend brings her around his family? Clearly he’s not keeping her a secret.[/quote]

No man worth marrying (or planning to get married) would stay out until 6 am dancing with other women  with a newborn at home and not even contact his "fiance"..

This is not about a night out. This is about total disrespect and definitely about keeping his options open while hers have narrowed. She needs to wake up and smell the coffee.[/quote]

Here's the thing. OP's sister WAS gorgeous and had high social market value PRE-kid. But now she's got a kid, and she'll never get back her pre-baby body.

Meanwhile his career is climbing upward as he's generating resources and growing into his looks, like any 20-something going into his early 30s. So he's got a rising SMV while hers is declining. So of course he's going to get interest, and he has to explore that to be sure he really wants to be with OP's sister even as she declines.

So it comes down to this: Is OP special enough to put a ring on it? That's something for OP's sister to confront and to be sure she's always improving herself.[/quote]

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