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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Think of it in your DH shoes. He grew up without his father and he wants to have at least a relationship with his father. We only get one father in this lifetime so maybe he’s doing what he can to maintain a decent relationship. [b]People do change.[/quote][/b] They don’t, not usually. OP, I am with you. Money should never be flowing from child to parent, unless that child is like Elon Musk or a famous athlete/musician, etc., whose parents’ support and guidance made their success possible. This “dad” deserves nothing. That said, let DH give him this one time gift. Make sure he understands that you see this as a one-time gift that you can support. What you can’t support, and what you worry about, is becoming financially entangled on a permanent basis, and you see that as endangering the security of your family’s finances. [/quote]
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