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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Absolutely wasn't snooping but I don't car to convince the haters otherwise.

Yes the notes are accurate but I'm allowed to live in my house too. I'm not his guest. Yes, I will occasionally be messy and yes my stuff will sit on the dining room table for a week while I'm working 8-6, raising three kids and getting them to and from sports/events. That's life.

My instinct is to call him out on his little notes. I find it very... unmasculine[/quote]

I was with you until you referred to his notes as "little" and questioned his masculinity. Do you demean him frequently?[/quote]

I'll demean when demeaning is called for. I'm not a student of his trying to get an A. He's grading me as if he sits in some spot of authority. I could very easily do the same to him and his shortcomings are plentiful. But I don't because I'm an adult and if I have a problem I can promise you that you will hear it.[/quote

OP, I understand how you feel. He isn't your boss. You do get to live in your house. A normal spouse, if they had a concern about cleanliness or clutter, would say 'how can we handle this, should we (schedule time to clean, hire help, ect)' NOT keep stupid little notes about some perceived slight! It probably takes him more time to take notes than it would to solve the issue he's writing about!

I think, for me, this would be a dealbreaker.[/quote]

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