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[quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing- until you read this, how was your communication? Do you talk about everything and does it go well/get resolved/remain respectful? Do you agree with his notes? If so, I would discuss this/find out why the notes were done. Especially if you don't agree, you need to discuss.

If not, use this as a learning opportunity for what your spouse does not feel he can say to you. Can he not say it because you argue? Because it never gets to a fruitful point? Are you a screamer/a denier/ a martyr/other? Is he? Does he not say these things because it's not true? Because he is building a case to leave/documenting? I guess if things were that bad for me I'd be on my best behaviour so that he wouldn't have a 'case' and I'd also be hoping that if I got lucky- maybe me pulling in my horns/doing better would save our marriage. But on the flip side, if you want out, start doing your own notes.

And if it's that bad, keep checking the phone- I'd be doing that to 'improve' or reality check my version of my behaviour with his. [/quote]

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