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[quote=Anonymous]Mom, B+
Dad, C as a kid, F now

Mom busted her butt all through my childhood to give us a good life. She went to college while working nights. We didn’t have a lot, but we were never hungry or (too) cold. She moved us close to grandparents for support. She yelled a lot and was really controlling at times, but never abusive. She could have used some Xanax. Later in life she remarried, was able to have a career, be somewhat financially stable, enjoy some luxuries. She helped us buy our house and loved my DS more than life. I didn’t have health insurance until 27, but she made sure we went to the doctor and dentist. I was left with debt rather than an inheritance when my mom died. But I feel like she did her best.

Dad was around mostly, though he traveled with bands so his presence was inconsistent. He was good natured but not much of a leader or mentor. He has been 90% checked out of my life since my parents divorced when I was in high school. 100% checked out since his 2nd wife died and he met a new woman. He occasionally calls to ask for money. We haven’t spoken in a year. He hasn’t met my kid, despite living only 40 miles away. I’ve recently learned a lot of new info. that has made me reevaluate him and our future.
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