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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t know how severe his disability is but I am guessing  you are doing some heavy lifting if there is paralysis involved; in the balance of things I think you deserve to get away for an hour or two once a month or a few times a year or whatever it is that you need.

I’ve been married for 23 years and if I wasn’t able to take care of my wife I would be fine with her seeing someone occasionally as long as it didn’t threaten our marriage. Of course there is the possibility of you falling in love with whoever it is you are sleeping with, your bonding chemicals have been bound up for a while and there’s no telling what they’ll do once you are feeling someone else’s skin against yours.

OP you are obviously a good and caring person and I am sorry that this is happened to you and your husband. I don’t know what your husband was like before his accident but many times an injury or major life change can bring out the best and most generous parts of a person, I don’t suggest you speak to him about this as it would you absolutely no good but do you think he would allow you some free time to feel good again? If you think about it it could be no different then a massage.

My last note to you would be to speak to a therapist about a possible strategy that you could use to see someone and still protect your heart.  I said you’ve been reading along and some of the comments here are extraordinarily small minded and most likely coming from very unhappy people.

Seeing as you are a woman you have many more options than a man would in your position, if you are the sexually adventurous type and all you’re after is some physical contact you would have a very easy time joining another couple, experienced sexually adventurous couples have a much better system of keeping boundaries and staying professional for lack of a better word- in short if you join in with swingers there is very little chance of anyone falling in love with anyone else. If a couple that you are playing with learns of your situation and how long you’ve been without pleasure you will have two people treating you like a goddess!

I wish you luck and hope you can find a discrete and fulfilling  occasional playmate. [/quote]

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